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Friday, May 2, 2014
Love. Like you love yourself.
I am going to tell you a little something about love.
As many of you know, in the Jewish tradition we read a section of the Old Testament in the synagogue every week. The Old Testament is divided up in portions so that we finish the entire book every year.
Last week we read a momentous sentence, one that most of my dear readers have probably heard in some form or other before.
In Leviticus 19:18 it says, “love your friend as yourself”. Listen in Hebrew
You could translate it like that but it would not be much of a grammatical stretch in Hebrew if you read it slightly differently:
“you will love your friend like you love yourself”
So maybe it’s a commandment or maybe it’s sage advice: You want to love someone? Learn how to love yourself.
Learning to love yourself is a prerequisite for learning how to love others.
Stay tuned next week for how to love yourself.
Ari Hoffman MA, LPC
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